Tuesday, December 7, 2010

What the dying can teach us about living

Canadian hospice care workers say caring for the dying teaches them how to live, according to a new study that looks at how people are shaped by exposure to death.
After shadowing doctors, nurses, assistants, spiritual care workers and psychologists in palliative care centres in Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, Calgary and Vancouver, researchers found health professionals reported a better understanding of the meaning of life, an increased awareness of spirituality and an acknowledgment of their own mortality.
Lead researcher Shane Sinclair, of Calgary's Tom Baker Cancer Centre, said many of respondents in his study admitted to rearranging priorities in their lives after learning from their dying patients that they wished they had spent more time with family or focused on enjoying life instead of working.
"No patients had ever said that if they could do one thing over, they would work harder. They always said that what they're most proud of is their memories with family and friends," Mr. Sinclair said.
"These thoughts helped health-care professionals realign themselves to live as meaningful a life as possible. Now they have this gift of time, unlike their patients who were looking back," he said.
Some workers heeded the advice they received by taking vacations, and promising themselves they wouldn't let money or their career paths interrupt family time. Making health-conscious choices was also "in the mix" as some workers watched their patients die of lung cancer or other painful illnesses.
"In incorporating these decisions, they were able to live more truly out of their own sense of meaning, value and purpose rather than being directed by an outside authority," Mr. Sinclair said.
Patty Power, who was interviewed in the study, has been a nurse caring for terminally ill patients for about 30 years.
She said examining the minute details when looking after her patients made her a better mother, spouse and friend.
"I used to think I know everything and it's important in palliative care to minimize and relieve any painful symptoms, but it's important to just sit back and listen first," she said.
She watches families patiently look after their sick relatives every day, which has also taught her "another level of devotion and sacrifice."
Mr. Sinclair hopes his study, published Monday in the Canadian Medication Association Journal, will help Canadians and doctors discuss death without hesitation because there are benefits involved.
"Here, death is partitioned off as a separate phase of life we don't talk about as often and we try to make it very neat and tidy. In other countries, people are exposed to the experience more through rituals or festivals," he said.
Canada ranked ninth in an international Quality of Death index released this summer that measured hospice and palliative care environments in 40 countries.
But the country is still unable to provide hospice care services to more than 70 per cent of dying Canadians, according to the nation's Hospice Palliative Care Association.
http://www.nationalpost.com/todays-paper/What+dying+teach+about+living/3937273/story.html